One of the most common blowouts in modern-day relationships is “sexual boredom”. Two people who could once not keep their hands off of each other, would now much rather head for the television remote. But why is it so? Sex is supposed to explosive, passionate, and the perfect antidote to bring a couple closer. However, does committed sex have a shelf life?
Well, there's no denying that things eventually go from sizzling to scripted and boring. In fact, we have proof! Durex India conducted a study and found 74% of Indians want to try something new in bed. One's got to be innovative to nip the issue of deadbeat sex in the bud. I mean, #WhySoBoring guys?
Durex recently uploaded a post which took the internet by storn. Take a look at it!View this post on Instagram
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In fact, Bollywood celebrities have been participating in the ongoing discourse as well.View this post on Instagram
A post shared by Eisha Chopra (@eishachopra) on Nov 7, 2019 at 2:27am PST
Okay what's going on? Sex is apparently boring now.
I think I fall in the 24% that feels that the art of making love isn't boring and hence you gotta help me understand these numbers stated by @DurexIndia !
Comment below with what you think makes sex boring with #WhySoBoring! pic.twitter.com/VZFjpwFKs8
Whats up, India? Honestly, the stats by @DurexIndia has me ð³ A country that's having so much sex and yet finding it boring? Let's get creative with this, Comment below why you think sex is boring! #WhySoBoring pic.twitter.com/lNiCGvR3S9— Bani Jâ¡ï¸ (@bani_j) November 7, 2019
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Here are 5 possible reasons why you and your partner might be missing the spark in bed lately:1. Following The Usual Drill
One rule of thumb, when it comes to good sex is – keep it mysterious! Try new things, prop it up, throw in a new technique, the options are limitless. Because guys, if you've been following the same, battered and tattered sex routine, it's bound to get boring.2. Neglecting Foreplay
Good sex has little to do with the actual act of sex, as a majority of it depends on chemistry, foreplay, and emotions. I mean, without a little talking and foreplay, sex is just “wham, bam, thank you ma'am”, and no couple really wants that.3. Too Comfortable To Make An Effort
Ever been so comfortable with someone that you stop making efforts? Well, that's a big no-no in bed. Be it what you're wearing, kinky techniques, the sheets to the aroma candles, keep it all evolving and mysterious!4. Silent Sex – A Bummer!
If your bed is lacking conversation during sex, you need to pump it up. Be it compliments, nicknames, commands or whatever floats your boat, it's bound to spice it up for you guys.5. Not Communicating What You Want
It's very crucial to let your partner know what you like in bed, something new you wish to try, a fetish you've suppressed for a while, or anything else! If you're too afraid to communicate this face-to-face, try your hand at sexting. Do what it takes, because talking about sex is a real game-changer.
So guys, why do you think sex becomes boring after a point? Leave your answer in the comments section below!